when i think something is so, it becomes so. either because i have created the exact space for it to become reality in a relationship or in another person, or because i have reinforced that judgment of reality in such a way as to make it so for the other person. and if they resist or dont agree with my judgment of reality, my opinion creates the opposite reality in them (which is the same) or a denial of my reality in them (which is the same). and often it inspires guilt in their heart. since most of these self-serving/self-avoiding judgments are critical or negative (guilt/blame). and it doesnt matter how justified or accurate i am. it doesnt matter how honest i am. it doesnt matter how right i am.
judgment is judgment. and judgment creates a repetitive locked reality pattern.
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