its true that everyone is a reflection of me. and that what i judge in someone else is myself. the anger and hurt is me recognizing myself. and expressing my self-hatred is me criticizing someone else. others reflect me. when i judge others its because i have that judgment and disapproval of myself. i project my negative self-image onto others. i judge others according to how i judge myself.
everyone is free to decide their own values and their own path. free to live their lives however they choose, even if i hate it or think they're hurting themselves.
only offer help when it is requested. but then, when it is given, don't express opinions (judgments), even if they're agreed upon as true. there's no place for personal opinions (judgments) when helping someone. they're manipulative and controlling. it influences someone's beliefs about themselves or their beliefs about you or both.
zimmerman blogs
my daily practice
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dandasana (staff pose) don-DAHS-anna instructions: brad's iyengar yoga notebook - yandara institute14 years ago
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*anger towards self* for being so unreliable. i didn't do what i needed to do today. didn't do what i said i would do. didn't answer the phone. didn't eat ...15 years ago
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phone convo with mike - we talked about hospitalizations and the habits that've put us there. i remembered claudette to him. he seems to be through the wor...15 years ago
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for me it helps to think of the extreme that i'd be if i "give in to the feeling". my habit has been to minimize the effects, consequences, ramifications, ...15 years ago
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yama 'death', is a rule or code of conduct for living which will help bring a compassionate death to the ego or 'the lower self'. yamas comprise the 'shall...15 years ago
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hello folks "hello" am i doing too much? "no" thank you am i living my life yet? "yes" am i avoiding life? "yes. its natural." i'm filled with grief? "yes. f...15 years ago
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Cathy Breshears
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Savasana, the corpse pose in yoga, is the rest at the end of your yoga practice. Its not really about being dead or even acting like the dead. It is restin...
