when i have a feeling of hurt, disappointment, disapproval, negativity, dislike, finding fault, looking down on someone, holding someone responsible, making someone wrong, judging someone in any way - then i have attachments. and i'm wanting someone to think of me instead of being free.
"communication and friendship is fitting a person in where they feel comfortable, not where you want to fit them or think they should go." - Yogi Bhajan